Moratorium

Being single is not anything to fear. I have witnessed many people who are so dependent on relationships to point where if they are not in one they feel worthless and unattractive.

I believe that time to be single is healthy, and maybe even therapeutic. I believe that a person needs that time to be alone, to appreciate themselves and who they are. In relationships, at times, you forget about yourself and that you are a person and that you have feelings also.

Being single also gives you the opportunity to evaluate your definition of love and how is it that you want to be loved by someone else. Everyone has a different definition of love and how actively love plays a role in relationships.

So for those who feel that they go through relationship after relationship, for those who feel like they are being dogged by the doggiest, for those who are just exhausted by searching for that special one then maybe you need time to be single. Declare a moratorium on relationships and become more comfortable with yourself. Reflect and meditate. Work on making yourself happy, because in the end you is all you have.

♥ Kimokeo